Ladies, if you’ve been around for long enough, you know that this question (a women asking a man out) used to be non-existent. It was only tradition that the guy ask you out. Times have changed and roles have changed-at least, changed somewhat. But, without further adieu, I present to you the following.
Perhaps the stud you’ve got your eyes laid on is already interested in you as well. Perhaps he may be nervous of approaching you, or somewhat shy altogether.
The Approach
Go ahead; introduce yourself-if you haven’t thus far. Wear a great, “toothy” smile, and make small chit-chat with him. Also, make positive that he does not have a lot on his plate at the particular time you want to commence flirting; instead, wait until he’s more relaxed and stress-free.
Help, what do I wear?!
It all depends on the guy–as you know, many are different-but most have one very universal like, a good-looking gal wearing sexy clothes. The more skin you can expose, the better. However, let me stop you dead in your tracks for a moment-sexy clothes and skin are good, but please, do not overdo it! Use your God-given common sense girls.
Friendship First
Unless you are only asking a guy out for sex-and the only thing he concerned about is sex, too-then make sure you have hung out a few times and have gotten a feel for each other. If he seems genuinely into you, tactfully ask him out on a date.
Create the Mood
First things first-keep good eye contact with him (while not staring, obviously). Do not take yourself too seriously and make it a point to laugh a little (while not faking it). Walk the fine line between having confidence in you and being fun, positive and light-hearted.
Humbleness and Confidence-it’s crucial to keep a nice balance between the two.
An advantage that you’ll have right off the bat
This relates directly to the opening line of this page. Since it’s been a time-honored legacy among men to be the first to ask women out, when you pop the question to him-well, it may seem pretty radical initially to your stud. He will love the gesture too! (if he is not already taken, or if he isn’t even wanting a relationship)
Investigate and act on it
Use your feminine intuition and try to gauge whether or not he could be interested in being more than friends. With most guys and as harmless as it may sound-do not ask him “will you date me, or will you go out with me?”-no, not at first. There’s no better way to scare a guy off than to pop that question to him on the spur of the moment, and without a little “building up to it”.
“Building up to it” means asking him out to movies, to restaurants or even to dinner at your place.
Find common ground
Make sure the two of you have at least some common ground. For example, you both love movies and horse-back riding-and so forth. Naturally, the more rapport you can build with him, the better.
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